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we're {not} having a baby! ... what happened?
On March 10, 2020 Amy left Bangor to promote her book. Little did she know that this was the beginning of her struggle with Long COVID.
Lance Blackstone
Jun 26, 20242 min read
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CHILDFREE BY CHOICE: Survey Says!
Reviews of Childfree by Choice: The Movement Redefining Family and Creating a New Age of Independence are rolling in, and we’re pleased...
Lance Blackstone
Jun 19, 20192 min read
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It’s a… BOOK!
Introducing Childfree by Choice: The Movement Redefining Family and Creating a New Age of Independence “…thoroughly researched and...
Lance Blackstone
May 1, 20191 min read
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{childfree} manifesto
This is our manifesto; what we’re {not} having a baby! is all about. We hope you like it! If you do, get your own copy here! Special...
Lance Blackstone
Apr 14, 20191 min read
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To My Galentines, With Love
As a 40-something year old woman, I’ve been around for enough years to have enjoyed my share of friendships. Some were short-lived but...
Lance Blackstone
Feb 7, 20186 min read
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Follow Your Instincts
by Emma Clarkson Not only is the world around us descending into utter and absolute WTF, but it seems like our personal and interpersonal...
Lance Blackstone
Dec 29, 20174 min read
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The Most Wonderful {childfree} Time of the Year
Oh, the holidays. It’s the most wonderful time of the year, at least if Andy Williams is to be believed. It’s also the time when those of...
Lance Blackstone
Nov 23, 20172 min read
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Becoming Childfree
Our latest Childfree Story comes from Brittany Brolley, a freelance lifestyle and relationship writer. She is an advocate for the...
Lance Blackstone
Jul 20, 20174 min read
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As a Childfree Woman, Every Day is Independence Day
I’ve never been someone who likes to commit to anything too far in advance. In high school I had a boyfriend who always wanted to make...
Lance Blackstone
Jul 12, 20172 min read
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Who Are You Going to Be When You’re Not Supposed to Be Anyone Anymore?*
In the end, I’ll die in solitude, with the bitterness of loneliness. At least that’s what the Pope has predicted for me, a married woman...
Lance Blackstone
May 24, 20172 min read
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Happy DINKs, Lisa’s Childfree Story
As a “happy DINK” couple ourselves, we’re delighted to share this childfree story from Lisa who, together with her husband, represents...
Lance Blackstone
Nov 16, 20166 min read
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Deciding to Remain Childfree
Stefani’s studies have taken her through modern, medieval, and ancient languages and literature, gender studies, reproductive sociology,...
Lance Blackstone
Aug 31, 20166 min read
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Out of the Void
Today’s post is by El McGillivray. El is a part-time illustrator, nascent activist, and one third of a small engineering partnership. ...
Lance Blackstone
Nov 8, 20155 min read
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How To Decide When You Can’t Decide
By Emma of fluxedupchick.blogspot.com So how was someone like me supposed to make the biggest decision of her life? To me, anyway,...
Lance Blackstone
Aug 31, 20153 min read
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I think it all began when I was a kid…
We recently received an email, subject line “Thanks for this awesome blog!!!” Normally we ignore anything with less than two or less...
Lance Blackstone
Apr 6, 20152 min read
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The Road Not Taken
This Childfree Story is brought to us courtesy of Elizabeth Barton and is a re-post from her blog The Lizard Chronicles. Why “The Lizard...
Lance Blackstone
Mar 17, 20154 min read
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No Grand Epiphany
Our latest childfree story comes from Sarah. Sarah is a Registered Nurse and primarily prefers to work with older folks. She and her...
Lance Blackstone
Jan 21, 20154 min read
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You’ll Change Your Mind! Childfree Myth, Busted
“I never wanted to have kids since as early as I can remember. I remember when I was twelve I read something about the likelihood of...
Lance Blackstone
Aug 22, 20145 min read
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Completely Childfree
Cross-posted from Feminist Reflections with permission. In sixteen short words, Marisa Tomei sums up pretty much everything I think about...
Lance Blackstone
Aug 11, 20142 min read
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I didn’t have a good childhood…
Here at w{n}hab! we like to tackle childfree myths. Of course when we say something is a myth what we’re actually saying is...
Lance Blackstone
Jul 29, 20145 min read
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